You can never “balance” a great truth about God. God is infinite. Every attribute of God is infinite. His love is extreme. His mercy is extreme. His justice is extreme. His grace is extreme. His faithfulness is extreme. When in our minds we try to explain in a balanced way an attribute of God, it is like an ant attempting to explain to a flea that an elephant is big but not to the extreme. There is just no frame of reference. Just embrace the truth that God is God, He is who He is, and be grateful!