When I was a young Christian, I hated it when the preacher always focused on what we could not do (long list drops) and never talked about what we were to do. You cannot live a negative. I have always preferred to focus on the life we are to live. Let me illustrate. When I fell in love with Sis. Bev, I was not thinking all the time about, oh no, I cannot take this other girl out for dinner, I cannot hold that girl’s hand, etc… I just loved being with Bev. It is the same thing. I do not think about what I cannot do, I focus on enjoying Jesus everyday.